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- Nov. 08, 1990: Sorry, Sisters, This Is Not. . .
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1990
- Nov. 08, 1990 Special Issue - Women:The Road Ahead
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- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- THE ROAD TO EQUALITY, Page 15
- Sorry, Sisters, This Is Not the Revolution
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- <body>
- <p>By Barbara Ehrenreich
- </p>
- <p>[The author is a feminist and a writer. Her most recent book is
- The Worst Years of Our Lives: Irreverent Notes from a Decade of
- Greed.]
- </p>
- <p> American feminism late 1980s style could be defined,
- cynically, as women's rush to do the same foolish and benighted
- things that have traditionally occupied men. And why not? The
- good and honest things that have traditionally occupied women--like rearing children and keeping husbands in clean shirts--are valued in the
- wage. And whatever one thinks of investment banking or corporate
- law, the perks and the pay are way ahead of those for
- waitressing and data entry. So, every time a woman breaks a new
- barrier the rest of us tend to cheer--even if she's running a
- pollution-producing company or toting a gun in some
- ill-considered war.
- </p>
- <p> Two cheers, anyway. Because this is not the revolution that
- I, at least, signed on for. When the feminist movement burst
- forth a couple of decades ago, the goal was not just to join 'em--and certainly not just to beat 'em--but to improve an
- imperfect world. Gloria Steinem sketched out the vision in a
- 1970 TIME Essay titled "What It Would Be Like If Women Win."
- What it would be like was a whole lot better, for men as well
- as women, because, as she said right up front, "Women don't want
- to exchange places with men." We wanted better places, in a
- kinder, gentler, less rigidly gendered world.
- </p>
- <p> We didn't claim that women were morally superior. But they
- had been at the receiving end of prejudice long enough, we
- thought, to empathize with the underdog of either sex. Then too,
- the values implicit in motherhood were bound to clash with the
- "male values" of competitiveness and devil-may-care
- profiteering. We imagined women storming male strongholds and,
- once inside, becoming change agents, role models,
- whistle-blowers. The hand that rocks the cradle was sure to
- rock the boat.
- </p>
- <p> To a certain extent, women have "won." In medicine, law and
- management, they have increased their participation by 300% to
- 400% since the early '70s, and no one can argue that they
- haven't made some difference. Women lawyers have spearheaded
- reforms in the treatment of female victims of rape and of
- battering. Women executives have created supportive networks to
- help other women up the ladder and are striving to sensitize
- corporations to the need for flexible hours, child care and
- parental leave. Women journalists have fought to get women's
- concerns out of the "style section" and onto the front page.
- Women doctors, according to physician-writer Perri Klass, are
- less paternalistic than their male counterparts and "better at
- listening."
- </p>
- <p> But, I'm sorry, sisters, this is not the revolution. What's
- striking, from an old-fashioned (ca. 1970) feminist perspective,
- is just how little has changed. The fact that law is no longer
- classified as a "nontraditional" occupation for women has not
- made our culture any less graspingly litigious or any more
- concerned with the rights of the underdog. Women doctors haven't
- made a dent in the high-tech, bottom-line fixation of the
- medical profession, and no one would claim that the influx of
- executive women has ushered in a new era of high-toned business
- ethics.
- </p>
- <p> It's not that we were wrong back in the salad days of
- feminism about the existence of nurturant "feminine values." If
- anything, women have more distinctive views as a sex than they
- did 20 years ago. The gender gap first appeared in the
- presidential election of 1980, with women voting on the more
- liberal side. Recent polls show that women are more likely to
- favor social spending for the poor and to believe it's "very
- important" to work "for the betterment of American society."
- </p>
- <p> So why haven't our women pioneers made more of a mark?
- Charitably speaking, it may be too soon to expect vast
- transformations. For one thing, women in elite, fast-track
- positions are still pathetically scarce. FORTUNE magazine found
- this past July that in the highest echelons of corporate
- managers, fewer than one-half of 1% are female. Then there's the
- exhaustion factor. Women are far more likely to work a "double
- day" of career plus homemaking. The hand that rocks the cradle--and cradles the phone, and sweeps the floor, and writes the
- memo and meets the deadline--doesn't have time to reach out
- and save the world.
- </p>
- <p> But I fear, too, that women may be losing the idealistic
- vision that helped inspire feminism in the first place. Granted,
- every Out group--whether defined by race, ethnicity or sexual
- preference--seeks assimilation as a first priority. But every
- Out group carries with it a critical perspective, forged in the
- painful experiences of rejection and marginalization. When that
- perspective is lost or forgotten, a movement stands in danger
- of degenerating into a scramble for personal advancement. We
- applaud the winners and pray that their numbers increase, but
- the majority will still be found far outside the gates of
- privilege, waiting for the movement to start up again.
- </p>
- <p> And for all the pioneering that brave and ambitious women
- have done, the female majority remains outside, earning 70 cents
- to the man's $1 in stereotypically female jobs. That female
- majority must still find a way to survive the uncaring
- institutions, the exploitative employers and the deep social
- inequities the successful few have not yet got around to
- challenging.
- </p>
- <p> Maybe, now that women have got a foot in the door, it's time
- to pause and figure out what we intend to do when we get inside.
- Equality with men is a fine ambition, and I'll fight for any
- woman's right to do any foolish or benighted thing that men are
- paid and honored for. But ultimately, assimilation is just not
- good enough. As one vintage feminist T-shirt used to say, IF YOU
- THINK EQUALITY IS THE GOAL...YOUR STANDARDS ARE TOO LOW.
- </p>
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